I have often been asked, "What makes a relationship
work?" Here are my Top 7 Tips for a successful relationship.
Not everything is going to work for everybody, but using any
one of these tips will improve your relationship.
Communication
Communication is key. It is one of the most important
qualities in keeping a healthy relationship. However, not everyone knows how to
communicate properly, or even communicate at all. Happy and healthy couples
have their communication game down. They communicate the good. They vocalize
their love for one another, saying “I love you” often and offering compliments
to their partner.
Respect
Your partner's wishes and feelings have value. Let your
significant other know you are making an effort to keep their ideas in mind.
Mutual respect is essential in maintaining healthy relationships.
Focus on giving love
Genuine happiness is not about feeling good about ourselves
because other people love us; it’s more about how well we have loved ourselves
and others. The unintentional outcome of loving others more deeply is that we are
loved more deeply.
Admit your mistakes
If you know you've done something to hurt your partner,
intentionally or not, own up to it. Humble yourself and apologize sincerely,
without making excuses or justifications like "I'm sorry you made me angry."
Laugh together
Laugh at one another with the security of love. Laughter
helps the world go 'round, and it may with your relationship
hold each other, during tough times
A tell-tale sign of a healthy relationship is how you
support each other during these trying times. Don’t be afraid to cry together
and experience pain and suffering. Tragic events often take our breath away and
make us feel like the world around us is caving in. But the fact that you’re
still here means you have a 100 percent success rate with overcoming tough
times.
Do not ever hide anything from him/her
Especially your feelings about him/her and your relationship
- whether good or bad! This way you will be able to overcome all the
difficulties and challenges together. If something bad happened in your past
that still affects you in the present, he/she needs to know about it.
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